After six months of life's newest change in my life has passed, I have been forcing myself to pause and reflect on the result of this latest change.
I find what I am struggling with most at this particular path in my life is how hard to push myself - I find myself asking, how much growth is really happening here or how much of this is pushing just to push? That is, to keep up with the status quo. I feel this constant fight between two interior voices in my head. One says I should be working tirelessly to be everything, to do everything. The other tells me it's okay to take a break, it's ok to enjoy life. It's okay if you're not perfect.
I think the second is correct. I think I feel a pressure to be everything someone else says I should be, in a constant game of comparisons with every person I come in contact with. What I want for my life is to be uniquely me, flaws and all, changes and constant growth, but in my own time and manner. Along the same lines, I find that I am way to hard on myself. My inner voice is almost cruel with ongoing censures as to how I could be better or how I do not "do" enough. It's not always about the doing its about the "being." I am "worthy" just because I am.
I'm not sure any of this makes sense to anyone other than myself, but I'm sending it out there into the great big void.